Testimonials

“Carmen has been invaluable in guiding me through my grief work after the loss of my first born when she was an infant. I am thankful I met Carmen and had her support before our daughter finally passed away.  Carmen was there for the numerous diagnosis and ups and downs of those first few months when my husband and I lived in the pediatric cardiac ICU with our precious child hoping and praying she would recover and improve.  Carmen was there when we processed the devastating news that our daughter would not ultimately survive and when she did finally pass. I am not sure my marriage would have survived our tragic loss and I do not think I would have been able to have our next two children and be the mother I am without her support and guidance. My grief journey I know will be ongoing, but with Carmen there to support me when I need it, I know I can live with my grief without it consuming me.   I am eternally grateful to Carmen for her expertise and compassion.”

– Annika’s Mom

“Grief is such a difficult road to navigate, you are no longer able to function as you once did. Small details and tasks now seem impossible to overcome or accomplish. Having help from someone who knows what you face and can foresee events that may become stumbling blocks, is so necessary. Carmen has become my pillar of help and guidance. She works with me to build plans for more difficult dates and events. She offers suggestions in a supportive and respectful way to ensure that I am being gentle with myself. I would recommend visiting with Carmen if you are facing a devastating loss. You will find an environment of peace and understanding in her presence.”

– L.D.

“I first met Carmen four months after my son died. From that first day, Carmen gave me hope that I would be able to move forward with my life. I didn’t know how I was going to move forward, but prior to meeting Carmen, I had no hope. To be honest, I dread going to grief counselling, but I am always glad I do. Carmen encourages you to do some difficult “homework” and at times I felt it was cruel. However, there is never any judgment from Carmen if you don’t want to do it, just gentle encouragement. 

Carmen is able to validate my feelings and to confirm what I am feeling is completely normal. We all grieve differently and it’s nice to speak to someone who encourages you to grieve in your own way. She doesn’t put a time limit on your grief the way many people do. For me, I live in a household of males and I really like being able to talk to another woman, another mom. Carmen does not candy coat grief, it is difficult, ugly and a process. A process that I will go through for the rest of my life. Had I met Carmen under different circumstances, I believe we would have been good friends.”

– Cory’s Mom